Yeah that is right!Dont expect others to do everything for you.They will perhaps start to do it but be sure that they wont stick it up.People dont dont like a vilain person anyhow.
This quote reminds me of one of the famous proverbs in my country which is "if someone is rinsing your back, at least risk yourself to rinse your front". Dont wait for him to rinse your entire body while you are hand-crossed.
You want people to bring you food and then put it in your mouth, is that a kind of joke?!
Struggle everyday and every time for your interests and never be a layabout and eventually be depending on others.!